The Process
From the first phone call to the day the two families exchange numbers — here is exactly what happens, with nothing left vague.
Nearly every family here arrives through someone they already know — a friend, a relative, someone from the community. You call or WhatsApp Bhaarrtie on +91 98909 12706 and simply talk: about your son or daughter, what kind of family you are hoping to connect with, and what matters most to you. If you would rather write it down first, the registration form does the same job. There is nothing to pay at this stage, or at any stage until you decide you want more.
You send across your child's bio-data and a couple of clear photographs. Bhaarrtie reads it herself and fills it into the standard Shubbh Maangal format — name, age, height, education, what they do and where, family background, and what you are looking for. Consistency matters here: it is what lets her match quickly and accurately later.
You are added to the Shubbh Maangal WhatsApp community — over a thousand referred families. The group is where announcements go: new initiatives, upcoming meets, changes to how things run, and the good news when a rishta is finalised. Matching itself does not happen in the group.
Profiles are no longer posted openly for a thousand people to scroll through. Bhaarrtie now sends suggestions to each family one to one, only when she believes there is a genuine fit on both sides. It is slower and far more work for her — and it is the reason families here are comfortable sharing their details in the first place.
When a profile interests you, you tell Bhaarrtie. She then goes to the other family with your child's details and waits for their answer. Nothing moves until both sides have genuinely said yes — no one is pushed, and no one's details are pressed on a family that has not asked for them.
Once there is interest on both sides, Bhaarrtie speaks to each family separately, answers the questions each has about the other, and then exchanges the two families' phone numbers. The parents speak first, and once they are comfortable, the two young people begin talking directly.
After the numbers are exchanged, this becomes your conversation, not ours. Bhaarrtie steps back deliberately: the two families meet, talk, and decide in their own time and their own way. She stays reachable throughout for advice, for a second opinion, or to gently ask how things are going — and if it does not work out, the next profile is already being thought about.
Why we do not hand out phone numbers. Contact details are never shared upfront — not in the group, not on request. A number is passed on only after both families have said yes, and only through Bhaarrtie. It protects your child's privacy, keeps unsolicited calls out of your life, and means every first conversation starts on a footing both families have already agreed to.
What a Profile Looks Like
Every suggestion arrives on WhatsApp, from Bhaarrtie, addressed to you.
One or two photographs, plus the essentials in our standard format — name, age, height, education, occupation, city, and family background. Enough to know honestly whether you want to take it further. Phone numbers are not included.
Everything above, plus the family's full bio-data document — the detailed PDF with extended family details, background and preferences, exactly as the family themselves prepared it. And you can call Bhaarrtie to discuss it the moment it arrives.
Questions
Yes, genuinely. Registering, joining the community and receiving your first set of profile suggestions costs nothing, and no card or deposit is taken. This is deliberate — we would rather you judge us on the matches than on a sales pitch. You only consider Premium if and when you want unlimited matching and direct access to Bhaarrtie.
Around eight to ten curated suggestions, sent to you privately over time. Bhaarrtie keeps a written record of what has been sent to each family, so nothing is repeated and nothing is lost track of. After that, continuing requires Premium membership.
Because an introduction is not just a phone number — it is Bhaarrtie speaking to both sides, answering questions, and staying involved while the conversation develops. That work only happens for families who are committed to the process. In practice, when two families genuinely like each other, both usually come on board quickly.
Never. Nothing is posted in the community group for everyone to see. Profiles are sent privately to one family at a time, and phone numbers are only exchanged after both sides have agreed.
Yes — we call it a Beautiful Re-Start. Divorced, widowed or separated, you will be treated with exactly the same care and discretion as any other family, and matched just as seriously.
It happens, and it is nobody's failure. Tell Bhaarrtie and she moves on to the next suitable profile. For Premium members there is no cap on how many suggestions you receive — the membership runs until your child is settled.
Yes. NRI alliances are a significant part of what we do, and Bhaarrtie coordinates across time zones for families settled abroad or looking for a match overseas.
Share your child's details and Bhaarrtie will get back to you personally.